Giant Hornet

Today a giant bee-like creature was in my house. Presumably it came in with my son when he returned from the upper barn after tending the goats this morning. I was walking down the hall past the living room on my way upstairs when I heard this banging sound in there. I looked over and a giant something was beating itself against the lights and windows. It was HUGE! It seemed nearly the size of small hummingbird. 

On closer inspection is appeared to be a bee, wasp, or hornet. It buzzed, and loudly. It was at least 1.5 inches long, but seemed longer- pinky sized! It had brown wings and a brown head and thorax. It had a thick yellow and brown striped, hairy abdomen that was about as big around as my index finger. It looked like it could take down a bird, and one of substantial size at that!

I'm no fan of snakes. They move so creepily. And I dislike spiders, despite their benefits, because they are a bit intimidating. Bees, wasps, and hornets have never bothered me before, but this thing beat out the spiders and snakes! I mean, it flew, and fast! And it was LOUD, and seemingly mad.

I don't like to kill bugs. That exoskeleton crunch gives me the shivers. And most wasps and bees are very important for things like pollination and bothersome insect control. So I tried turning off lights and propping open the nearby door- no luck. I tried opening a window that it finally landed on. (That took bravery, by the way.) Slowly it crawled to the top of the frame. Slowly it crept over the edge of it and out of view. I waited. 

I wanted to see it fly away. It didn't. Then I started to worry that it would fly or crawl BACK IN. That was not desirable. I had a vision of my 10 week old getting stung and that made up my mind. I raised the window, hoping that the ugly thing was completely on the outside of the frame. CRUNCH! Nope. Shiver. Now I have that mess to look forward to when I next clean the windows- yuck.

Later today I wanted to find out what that creature was. Based on its size, it has to be either a European Hornet or a Cicada Killer Wasp. I looked through pictures of each, and neither is really striped, and neither seemed hairy enough. I think bees are hairy, not wasps. Perhaps bee-things are hairier in the spring than in the summer? 

Part of me wants to lower that window and take a closer look to satisfy my curiosity. Part of me is afraid that the armored creature will still be alive and angry and I should just leave it alone for a few days. Given my busyness lately, I'm thinking it will be the latter by default. Plus, it will be squashed (gross!) so probably not very helpful for identification purposes. But my curiosity will fester.

By the way, I tried to take some pictures of it, but as I was ducking the thing and with back light. Unfortunately, I left my camera in the baby's room, so I can't see if any of them turned out right now. If one did, I'll post it later for all of you amateur entomologists. :)

Home-made Foaming Hand Soap

People often ask me after visiting, "What hand soap is that in the bathroom?" And I sheepishly tell them that I make it. Some have asked for the "recipe". Someone on Facebook recently did too, so I figured that if I am going to type it up, I might as well make it a blog post. Here goes!

Foaming Hand Soap

1 foaming hand soap bottle (You can recycle a foaming hand wash bottle or buy a new bottle like this.)
1 cup warm water, approximately (avoid "hard" water if possible)
4 teaspoons Dr. Bronner's liquid Castile soap (Don't freak out about the hippy label :) and add more if your water is super "hard" or you like a thicker foam.)
15 drops grapefruit seed extract (edible and has antibacterial, antiviral, and anti-fungal properties)
3 drops tea tree oil (has antiseptic and anti-fungal properties)

1. Fill the bottle with the water.
2. Add the remaining ingredients.
3. Replace the pumping top and agitate gently to mix.

For those with sensitivities, or who dislike strong-smelling soaps, I recommend the unscented castile soap.

For those who prefer a pleasant smelling soap (also a way to tell if your child has washed his or her hands) you can either use the unscented and add a few drops of your favorite essential oil, or you can simply purchase a scented liquid castile soap.

I hope you like my concoction!

Hawk and Crow

Sometimes I think of bird calls in phrases. You know what I mean, right? The cardinal often says, "Peter, Peter, Peter!" "Pretty, bird! Pretty bird!" and "What cheer! What cheer!"  The robin sings, "Cheerio, Cheerio" during the day or "Sleep! Sleep, Chuck, Chuck, Chuck!" in the evening.

For the uninitiated, the barred owls cry, "Who cooks for you? Who cooks for you?" Last night their noise cut through the stone walls and glass windows of this house to hinder my sleep. However, it didn't disturb my children. I guess they know who cooks for them. They feel no burden of responsibility nagging them as they hunger for sleep. :)

Early this morning, as I rocked my nursling in the dismal dawn, I witnessed a hawk trying to catch a crow for breakfast. They swooped and dived and flew at ungraceful angles no bird flies at willingly. The aerial "dog-fight" maneuvers were amazing, set off by the steel gray sky, the emerald hay, and the dark vertical tree trunks that seemed to connect the two at the horizon line. Eventually the battling birds flew out of my field of vision, which was bounded by the window, so I do not know the outcome. I think it's best that way. 

I was beset by hungry mouths too. There was the greedy, suckling baby, as well as my three year old to contend with. The preschooler resents the delay of breakfast that our new one often causes at daybreak. And yet despite his perpetual hunger, I find myself often "fighting" with him over food these days, as his continually fluctuating whims and ideas rule the food he fancies. Thankfully, he threw no fits about the rice pudding I made, just the wait for it, and the temperature of it, and the lack of enough of it, and who sat by him while he ate it. :)

All day long it threatened rain. It was perpetual twilight. Rain fell at intervals. At midday, I noticed that two deer had bedded down in the hay, seemingly oblivious to the water. I wondered why they didn't seek shelter under a thick bush or in the lee of some tree or building. I envied their naps, despite wondering if water was getting in their eyes and why they didn't mind.

In the late afternoon, there was a deluge, our gutters overflowing, and a gray curtain of water shrouding the lake and woods on the other side of the hay field from view. Or maybe it was like a heavy blanket for the deer. I'm a little nap-obsessed. :)

This evening in the twilight, as I was rocking in the baby's room again while three of my children frolicked in the room above me, the newly-greened grass seemed to glow with its own light. The rainfall was light and misty. It seemed more like a fog. And it humored me to think of the weather matching my circumstances all day. There were my young children upstairs- vibrant. There I was in a sleepy, mental fog.

At bedtime, the thunder kicked in. I made a bed-tent for my three year old on the floor next to his sister's bunk beds. His fourteen year old brother was gone to an evening event in a neighboring city, and my little one had complained of "sleeping alone." Despite my husband being gone for two weeks on a business trip, I couldn't comfort him in my bed due to the fact that I'd be up and down with the baby and would disrupt his sleep even more. Hopefully he sleeps well, because the forecast for tomorrow is the same as for today- and probably in more ways than one. :)

Fox or Coyote?

Spring is really here now. The snow is gone. Thunderstorms are predicted all this week. The snowdrops have finished blooming.

The crocus are nearing their end. 

The Carolina Anemones are dotting the front lawn.

The forsythia are starting to bloom,

and so are the daffodils.

In the animal world there is more activity. The spring peepers continue to sing their tinkling love songs. And some birds are already busy finding nesting sites. For example, there's a barn swallow's nest on the stone siding under and eave that I failed to knock down last year. It has been visited by a pair of birds all week. 

Other animals have been more visible too. Just yesterday morning, during breakfast, I spotted a coyote out hunting for rodents in the upper hay field.

I called my family's attention to it, but there was some dispute as to whether it really WAS a coyote. My husband thought it was only a fox, since he didn't think the legs were long enough. In the middle of a rolling hay field it is hard to gauge size when there is nothing nearby for reference and the hay is at various heights in various places in the field.

I KNEW it wasn't a red fox. I had just watched a red fox doing the same thing the coyote was doing only a few days before, albeit at dinner time. 

This animal was colored entirely differently. It was suggested to me that it could be a gray fox. I was pretty sure that it wasn't. The ears weren't big enough, the nose wasn't narrow enough, and the tail wasn't bushy enough or long enough for it to be a fox. In fact, the whole animal seemed larger to me. So I snapped some photos for reference and decided to double-check later.

That afternoon I looked up pictures of gray foxes... not even close. I pulled up the pics. of the red fox I had snapped just to double check. Nope.

Sure enough, it was a coyote. 

It wasn't as big as the one we had spotted several times before, 

so perhaps it was a juvenile or a female. 

I was worried when we were contemplating moving here that what with all my duties as wife, mother, teacher, home-maker, etc., I would never get to enjoy the outdoors and it would be a "waste" to purchase a home like this, especially considering how much my husband works and travels too. I figured I'd be mowing when I did manage to get out, which would keep the beasts at bay. Or I would be tending squealing children or working on the land, not sitting around enjoying it. And I knew that there would at least be periods when I wouldn't get out much- like now, when I have an 8 week old and the weather is still cool. But in the end, I have found that the wildlife comes to my door, sometimes literally, and I enjoy it more than I ever imagined would be possible. 

Just this morning, leaving in the dark, a raccoon sat 2 feet from the drive as I passed it. It stared at the vehicle placidly- or should I say defiantly- eyes all aglow in the headlights. Upon returning home in the twilight of the morning, a bare-tailed possum scurried across the drive right in front of me. It's undulating rump vanishing in the bushes as I passed. And later, as I sat nursing my young son as he snuffled and snorked due to his cold, I saw geese splash down onto the pond.

It is neat to be so surrounded by nature. It keeps things in perspective. I live on the critter's turf really. All the pollution we humans create, all of the noise, all of the bulldozing and paving and restricting... it hasn't stopped all of the creatures. I live 5 minutes from town. I can hear the highway, train, and quarry equipment when the wind is right. But there are still wild things about due to the woods all around us. It's both comforting and intimidating.

But one thing is for certain. I need to figure out how to build a chicken fortress instead of a coop, and have to let go of the idea of chickens scratching in the lawn, perching on the porch, or taking dust baths in the flower beds, as they did at our old home. This coyote was spotted at 8:30 in the morning in full daylight. The fox was last seen at 5:30 in broad daylight. (The time before that, the fox used our sidewalk! Heck, a coyote once stood at the end of the walk to our front door too!) And of course along with the raccoons and possums, there are always the owls, hawks and snakes too!

 (Those links are to previous posts. If you're interested in posts about my earlier coyote spottings, here they are: Coyote Chase, Lone Coyote, Look at the Deer, Dear! )  

Spring Snow

It continues to be cold. Snow continues to fall. My social media peeps are griping and growling about it, but it doesn't bother me. It IS only March after all. Whatever happened to, "April showers bring May flowers?" In these parts all the spring flowers are usually over a done with by Easter it seems. So, I'm looking forward to spring weather starting in spring and not before. 

I know. I'm weird. But I did live in northern climes for a while. We couldn't plant our gardens until June and had snow in October. 50 degrees was short sleeve weather. So this mid-America hatred of snow is a bit foreign to me.

Besides, snow is pure and lustrous and fills the air with reflected light. Those are good things, right? Here's today's example. This morning, the view out of the living room windows toward the woods was spectacular. The sparkling, shimmering, and shining snow showers slowly sifted and swirled through shafts of sunlight that seeped between the swaying trees. It was mesmerizing and marvelous. The glistening, gleaming, and glinting crystals circulating in splendid spirals lifted my spirits. 

Briefly I imagined being 7 again so that I could enjoy a few, self-absorbed and blissful minutes. I could picture it: I'd be whirling and spinning in the whorls of snow, my arms outstretched, my face upturned. Then I'd fall backward onto a cold and faintly crunchy carpet of luminescence, holding my breath in order to hear the faint and feeble whispers and sighs of the snowflakes as they softly struck the surface of the snow around me. The flakes would alighted on my cheeks like tiny, wet kisses, and I would smile. 

This is what people are complaining about? No, I think that they are complaining about their inability to take time to enjoy the snow. And I think they are complaining about the cold. I've been taking note lately, and people in this part of the country don't seem to know how to dress for the weather. What is it with the thin jackets, no gloves, and nary a hat? Of course winter weather in that is miserable. But as the saying goes, "There's no such thing as a bad winter- just bad winter clothes." It's a little like wearing a sweater to the beach in July and complaining about summer. 

Let's bundle up and just let the slow slide into spring begin and not rush things. Besides, the earlier it gets warm, the more we'll just need to mow.  So let it snow. Let it snow. Let it snow!

Pileated Woodpeckers

I snapped this picture of a pileated woodpecker from our dining room window last week. (It's pronounced pill-ee-ated, not pile-ated, as my old neighbor used to say. :) We have a pair of them that forage about the homestead.





A Pileated Woodpecker pair stays together on its territory all year round. So we see these two together quite a bit. When we don't see them, we often just hear them. They are loud and make these repeated "wuk" sounds that are pretty monkey or jungle-birdie sounding. (That's a very technical description, I know. :) 

I snapped this picture of the pair last summer.

I spied these out of the window.

Yup, I'm pretty sure that's a carpenter ant on my stone house.
(Did I mention that the eaves, window and door frames are wooden?!)

Pileated woodpeckers are LARGE, at least crow-sized. And they are striking... and I mean that in both senses of the word. Their black and white coloration with their red crests make them stand out from their surroundings. And they make some impressive drumming, which creates some impressive holes. The enthusiastic drumming that creates such holes sounds like a loud, fast hammering, and is audible for a great distance. (Woodpeckers also drum to attract mates and to announce the boundaries of their territories.)

You can tell a pileated woodpecker hole from other woodpecker holes because it is usually square-ish. What the birds are after is ants and larvae... specifically carpenter ants. (You can't live by the woods without carpenter ants about. I'm trying to remain calm and to remind myself that my home is partially stone.)

I headed out only 4 wks. postpartum to show these
to my kids.

Pileated woodpecker excavations can be so broad and deep that they can cause small trees to break in half! The holes these birds make offer crucial shelter to many species including swifts, owls, ducks, bats, and pine martens. They often attract other birds as well. Other woodpeckers and House Wrens, may come and feed in the same place.

I once bought a cedar pileated woodpecker feeder (similar to the one in the link) that held suet cakes when we lived at our old house. It was distinctive because it had a big "tail board" that enabled the large birds to cling to it. I am SO glad it didn't attract a pair of pileated woodpeckers to nest in the yard back then because at the time I had no idea just how destructive they were! I would have been heartbroken to have the 150 year old trees attacked and damaged/killed. Here it is not so worrisome. We could lose some of our trees and be none the worse. We are practically in the woods after all!

Syrup and Chickens

The day before the baby was born, snowdrops were spotted blooming in the yard.

Now, 5 weeks later, crocus are blooming as well. 

The maple trees, forsythia, and daffodils all have buds. Because of this, I can see a bit of a red aura along the maple limbs and a golden glow about the forsythia boughs through the windows as I rock my nursling. Spring is definitely here.

The snows have been frequent and heavy. But the snow doesn't "stick" for long. We've had lots of nights below freezing and lots of days above: perfect for maple syrup making. As tapping time came, I noted it with wistfulness. We've been here almost 2 years now, and have still not made maple syrup. There are plenty of real reasons, but it's still sad. 

Also, driving home from Mass the other day, one of the farm stores (Yes, we pass more than one.) had their chicks sign out. We have yet to construct a chicken fortress impenetrable by all the many predators that we have to contend with here. (Just the other day, during dinner, we saw a fox trotting across the upper hay field in that funny, springing way that foxes move.) So we won't have chickens this year either. I miss the chickens. So do my children. What's not to like about a farm animal that gives you pre-packaged, high protein food every day while eating your table scraps and decimating the insect population? 

Although I didn't spy the first blossoms of spring, (or photograph them- the pictures are from last year) I'm watching my oldest boy bloom into young adulthood. I'm not sugaring off the maple syrup, but I am experiencing my baby boy's first sweet smiles. And although I'm not carefully tending little chicks and watching their noisy antics, I am anxiously tending my growing brood of 5 and watching their frolicking. I can't have it all. I shouldn't. And I can't complain.

"It takes special people to have a big family", an elderly man told me after Mass this past Sunday, giving me a wise look. I was slightly embarrassed. Maybe my willingness to trade my expectations and desires for life with these beautiful little people is what he meant. He had come over to see the baby, whom he thought was much bigger.  Next he razzed my oldest a bit about his continued growth spurt. (I had to buy him size 32x34 overalls this week!)  

"They're all growing so well. What are you giving them?" he teased. "Lots of love." I joshed right back. He smiled and nodded knowingly. "It certainly shows," he replied. And like the snow showers that blanket the ugly rawness of March only to melt and foster the flowers, soften the lawn, and fill the lake to the brim, I hope that the love I shower upon them covers the defects in our characters, fades the flaws in my parenting, feeds the needs of their souls, softens their struggles in life, and fills their hearts with happiness. It certainly fills my heart with a bittersweet aching.  

And this family of seven? It's melting my pride. It's washing away my selfishness. It's stretching my limits. My children are giving me more than I could have ever clawed out for myself. What's not to like about that? 

Deer Antics

Deer have been overrunning the place recently. This morning there were 7 does foraging along the drive across from the house and next to my bedroom, as well. We've had a lot of snow, so they have been coming particularly close to our home in order to find food that isn't buried. They paw through the snow and eat the tender new grass that I planted last year. They come for the ivy growing up the trees in the "yard" and the bushes in front of the house. 

Yesterday, unbeknownst to me, a deer was between the bushes and the house. When I walked into the bedroom she must have heard me. She raised her head into view and turned to look at me. Her nose was practically touching the window. She looked decidedly like a "peeping Tom" and it was mildly surprising. After a stare-down, she reluctantly decided to move.

The day before that the children and I noticed a deer outside of the window. She was standing on her hind legs for intervals in order to pull down ivy leaves.  She saw us, and although she kept a wary eye focused in our direction, she was not deterred. I actually managed to snap a photo of her because of this. Even my 3 and 5 year old watched her for quite some time despite tapping the window, pointing, talking loudly, and squealing in delight.

It was quite comical, for in her effort to pull down foliage, the deer also knocked snow onto herself. This caused her to snort and shake it off. Plus, the lunges, flailing legs, and circus-style walking was amusing too. 

Owls

It was a long day. I made cornmeal mush (the old fashioned way- by sifting cornmeal through my fingers into a pot of boiling water as I stirred it) only to have kids grumpy about breakfast. They didn't like it. That's odd because they love fried cornmeal mush. Perhaps they thought that I should have just doused their bowls in maple syrup, like they try to do with the fried version.

a photo from a previous bath

The baby had the biggest diaper blowout of his to date- so bad it required an immediate bath- which he screamed through. My 3 year old wanted to help and kept getting in the way, and there was really no way for him to be able to help, so he was mad... and loud. He also had a backslide in his "potty training" today. He wet through 3 sets of clothes. He was unable to play peacefully with my 5 year old too, and his new habit of either whining and arguing about everything or collapsing in a melting heap of tears whenever he doesn't get his way was really trying. He's taking the baby's arrival a bit hard now that it's sinking in. (Although from the backseat of the car the other day I heard him announce to no one in particular,"The more you see babies, the more of them you want!") 

I made my 5 year old take a nap so that she would be able to handle her choir practice better tonight. She fell asleep fine (unlike my 3 year old- who wouldn't today) but had a hard wake-up before choir and got out the door late with her dad because of it.

My 9 year old was caught in a couple of lies today and was also mean to her little sister- unashamedly. Plus, she and I had an unpleasant math marathon this afternoon. She hates math. She wrote, "Nasty, nasty, nasty" all over a sheet of corrections. I'm not sure if she meant that I was nasty for assigning her the horrible math or if the math was what was nasty. In my mind it was her behavior that was nasty. Maybe nasty was just her "mantra".

My 14 year old "lost" a printed study guide I made him and all the electronic docs we accumulated for some research he is doing, was stupid about looking for said lost articles, and was subsequently obtuse concerning his history assignment today. We butted heads all afternoon. When I tried to scan and print him off another one, the all-in-one kept giving me an error about the yellow print cartridge when I was trying to print in black and white. Then it kept shooting out blank sheets of paper. Eventually it gave me an error message even though it hadn't done so for the first few attempts and "refused" to do anything. That machine gets to me every time.

The pizza I made from scratch for dinner got overcooked, as I was busy with the baby at a critical time and my hubs was late due to having stopped for office goods on the way home during chauffeur duty. Of course the kids quibbled about inanities all through the meal. And they complained about my pizza crust being too thick and "bready". And they had horrible table manners. Sigh.

These were just the bigger things that I dealt with today. Really, it was not that much different from any other day in regard to busyness and frustrations (although the kids were more out of control than usual due to recent circumstances.) But in my over-tired, hormonal state, I was getting testy. I wasn't handling it gracefully.

After finally getting the kids to bed (requiring multiple attempts) and while in the midst of rocking and nursing the fussy baby, I kept hearing weird noises. At first I thought it was the girls, still up in the room above me, chatting. But the noise seemed musical and regular. "They must be singing," I thought. So I listened more closely. It was nothing I recognized. I kept hearing the same note repeated over and over with regular pauses between. "Was one of the notes resonating with something in the house causing me to hear it more clearly?" I wondered. Finally, I was able to tuck the baby in his bed for a few minutes. I flicked off the little space heater I was using for white noise and listened, prepared to make another trip upstairs to quiet the rowdy kiddies. 

Owls! It was owls calling back and forth forcefully. After listening for a bit, I smiled and turned the heater back on. I had expected another negative- girls up too late, wound up and disobedient, who would be tired and badly behaved tomorrow. But it was loud owls.

Even when it is dark, even when the windows are down and the shutters are closed on this stone-faced home, even when I'm wrapped up in my own worries, nature has a way of seeping into everything here at the homestead. I find that reassuring and healing. It always points me back to the author of nature, the king of all creation. This centers and calms me. And because of nature interjecting itself into my evening unasked, tonight I remember that Paul wrote that God's grace is sufficient for me "for power is made perfect in infirmity. Gladly therefore will I glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may dwell in me. For which cause I please myself in my infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ. For when I am weak, then am I powerful." 

Nope, I can't be perfect. Yes, my children will be a little wild or badly behaved sometimes. Yup, I won't be able to maintain perennial order in our home. But God's plans are bigger than my priorities. God's plans include and use little, flawed me. "WHO? Who? who?" ...ME!  God chose me to parent these children and sent these children to me... the most recent one healthy, beautiful, and amazing. He gave me this vocation and orchestrated things such that I am in this location at this time with these circumstances. I just need to keep persevering and trusting. Those owls reminded me to be grateful, to lighten up, and to roll with it all... with joy and peace. 

Four Weeks

Four weeks?!

A month has already passed since our son was born! In some ways it doesn't seem possible. In other ways, a lot has happened in that short time.

First off, we had our son baptized when he was 5 days old. This took some doing as our parish priest was to be absent for 2 of the 4 Sundays following his birth, had seven people scheduled to receive the sacrament of Baptism on 1 of the 2 available Sundays, and the remaining Sunday not only fell in Lent, but was too late to for our comfort and too late in order to submit the baptismal certificate as proof of existence when filing for our son's social security number (which we needed in order to enroll him in our healthcare plan.) We had to settle for a visiting monsignor to administer the sacrament. Also, hosting overnight guests and providing food for visitors and for a baptismal party is a bit difficult only 5 short days after a birth too!

In the end, we discovered that our new county's health department will file for a social security card for you when you file for a birth certificate. Bonus! In part I suppose this is because our county does not have a social security office, and perhaps the fact that there is a large Amish population. But it turns out the statewide system for recording birth certificates is down, so we haven't received either. Thankfully, my husband's employer accepted an affidavit of his birth on a temporary basis so that he will still be covered by our health insurance. Whew!

My sister, who had been staying with us in order to help out, left two weeks after our son's birth. We are grateful for her help and the three weeks of her time she sacrificed to spend with us, etc. She washed a lot of dishes and folded a lot of laundry while here. She also entertained my children, who adore her.

The baby is doing well. He's a handful in more ways than one, but sweet and pretty mild mannered all in all. (After the infancy of our oldest son, most babies seem mild mannered to me!) He's given me a string of worries though. First there was the fact that he lost 10% of his body weight the week he was born. That's the high end of normal, but 10% of 11 pounds is pretty substantial (as compared to 10% of 7 lbs.) and therefore takes longer to gain back. After a month he is finally a half pound heavier than he was at birth. And it was doubly concerning for me, as my other children didn't lose weight initially and packed on the pounds right away.

Another worry was that it took him 8 days to pass his first bowel movement (not counting multiple meconium diapers, of course.) He's doing well in that department (so to speak) now. Then there was his back-to-back 3 minute nursing sessions. Thankfully, although he still has periods of demanding this, his snack-nursing/cat-napping is no longer continuous. But it was frustrating for both of us, and exhausting too. Then his umbilical stump dried up and fell off, but left one vessel protruding from his belly button that looked as if it might have healed that way. Ugly. With lots of care and a little more time, it has dried up too though, and his belly button is now normal. 

In other news, my husband was told by a doctor today that he has a small hernia and has scheduled an appointment with a surgeon next week. He's worried about how taking care of it may disrupt his new job. He's been assisting a local order of Franciscan friars with their network. They run a radio station and record T.V. shows at their friary. He found an office space to rent within his small budget and moved in. His business cards arrived. He's been purchasing equipment for his office. And unfortunately the computer he just got for his new job is acting flaky. The monitor is going black at random. He'll have to take it to the big city about an hour away for service. He's been on quite a few conference calls for his new job, and has had several meetings with the man appointed to replace him at his old place of employment as well. He also found out that not only will he be in California for his first week on the new job, but he will be going to Taiwan in April.

Then there's all the random stuff: my oldest daughter got a cold and ran a low fever one weekend, so we had to split shifts for Mass and worried about the baby getting ill. We were notified of a recall on our washing machine. I'm supposed to get a service person to replace something because it will throw parts if you wash something waterproof. That's not good, considering I want to launder water-proof diaper pail liners and waterproof diaper covers. There was also a recall on the transmission of our new van, so that had to be taken in for service. My husband had the tire with the slow leak looked at at the same time. Of course the tires were not under the new vehicle's warranty. Speaking of vehicles, the check engine light had come on in the truck one day. Luckily an oil change that included replacing the air filter took care of that. (We park the truck in the barn and a mouse had made a nest in the air filter.) Yuck. We had a repair man come out to fix our inoperable garage door. My 3 year old finally decided that he wants to use the toilet, so we're in the midst of "potty training"... again. People came to visit in order to meet the new baby, etc. etc.

Then there's all the normal stuff. That kept us busy before our little man arrived!